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A SILENT LOVE
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From the very Begining, the girl's family objected strongly on her dating this guy. Saying that it has got to do with family background & that the girl will have to suffer for the rest of her life if she were to be with him.

Due to family's pressure, the couple quarrel very often. Though the girl love the guy deeply, but she always ask him: "How deep is your love for me?"

As the guy is not good with his words, this often cause the girl to be very upset. With that & the family's pressure, the girl often vent her anger on him. As for him, he only endure it in silence.

After a couple of years, the guy finally graduated & decided to further his studies in overseas. Before leaving, he proposed to the girl: "I'm not very good with words. But all I know is that I love you. If you allow me, I will take care of you for the rest of my life. As for your family, I'll try my best to talk them round. Will you marry me?"

The girl agreed, & with the guy's determination, the family finally gave in & agreed to let them get married. So before he leave, they got engaged.

The girl went out to the working society, whereas the guy was overseas, continuing his studies. They sent their love through emails & phone calls. Though it's hard, but both never thought of giving up.

One day, while the girl was on her way to work, she was knocked down by a car that lost control. When she woke up, she saw her parents beside her bed. She realised that she was badly injured. Seeing her mum crying, she wanted to comfort her. But she realized that all that could come out of her mouth was just a sigh. She has lost her voice......

The doctors says that the impact on her brain has caused her to lose her voice. Listening to her parents' comfort, but with nothing coming out from her, she broke down.

During the stay in hospital, besides silence cry,.....it's still just silence cry that companied her. Upon reaching home, everything seems to be the same. Except for the ringing tone of the phone. Which pierced into her heart everytime it rang. She does not wish to let the guy know. & not wanting to be a burden to him, she wrote a letter to him saying that she does not wish to wait any longer.

With that, she sent the ring back to him. In return, the guy sent millions & millions of reply, and countless of phonecalls,.. all the girl could do, besides crying, is still crying....

The parents decided to move away, hoping that she could eventually forget everything & be happy.

With a new environment, the girl learn sign language & started a new life. Telling herself everyday that she must forget the guy. One day, her friend came & told her that he's back. She asked her friend not to let him know what happened to her. Since then, there wasn't anymore news of him.

A year has passed & her friend came with an envelope, containing an invitation card for the guy's wedding. The girl was shattered. When she open the letter, she saw her name in it instead.

When she was about to ask her friend what's going on, she saw the guy standing in front of her. He used sign language telling her "I've spent a year's time to learn sign language. Just to let you know that I've not forgotten our promise. Let me have the chance to be your voice. I Love You. With that, he slipped the ring back into her finger. The girl finally smiled.



October 13, 2008 | 4:44 AM Comments  12 comments

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richamathur richa mathur
October 13, 2008 | 7:17 AM

very touching love story.....good work!
nagyelali Adham Khalil
October 13, 2008 | 9:07 AM

hi ... i like this story ... thanks for sharing us ... love is painfull or beautiful ...
clarita clarita zarate
October 13, 2008 | 10:11 AM
Good story!
I like reading stories like this!
Mzkhalil Maz!n Khal!l
October 13, 2008 | 11:35 AM

Let me have the chance to be your voice and say " its really wonderful "
abbyorisha Abigail Ngulube
October 14, 2008 | 2:08 AM
Thanx
Love is painfull indeed, I was also touched, actually this happened to a friend of mine last year.
abbyorisha Abigail Ngulube
October 14, 2008 | 2:34 AM
Good Last Words
We last saw each other 4 months ago before she and her husband went to America. Below are LAST WORDS she gave me while crying and saying bye to me in sign language.

Even when some people want advice in their personal life, it is a much wiser not to give it, but to help them see what their options are and determine their own solutions. As long as I "come on parent" to others, advising them what they should or shouldn't do, it may inflate my weak ego and make me feel important (falsely so), but it keeps others over-dependent on me and immature. It can also play the part of God and the Holy Spirit in other people's lives!

A good counselor doesn't tell people what they should or shouldn't do. He/she helps his/her clients to face reality (to see the truth ... first about themselves and then about the situation they are in) and decide for themselves what they need to do.

What I want from a friend when I am feeling in the pits, is someone to listen to me with their heart, to give me their presence, and accept me as I am—and in so doing communicate to me that they care. On such occasions I don't want or need advice, unsolicited or otherwise.

In other words I want friends who rejoice with me when I rejoice and weep with me when I weep. If you have such friends, cherish them forever. They are rare jewels. Few counselors are like you Abigail, I will keep on remembering you as long as I live.

We smiled, cried, lunghed at the same time, and they went just like that.......

Aways touched.
abbyorisha Abigail Ngulube
October 17, 2008 | 2:25 AM
Love is sweet.
Con azúcar, todo es dulce.
harrydeyy Edike Harrison
October 17, 2008 | 5:48 PM
Impressive
Am really impressed by this beautiful and wonderful write up.... Keep the light Up and Candle burning
Nassiba Nassiba
October 17, 2008 | 6:21 PM
Hello
Amazing story !!!
The first time for me to read something on TIG until the end :)
Thanks a lot !!!

NB :
There s so much to learn in this world , and there re 6 billions of people on earth ... the most important thing and hardest one is how to communicate well with the person who s in front of us without hurting her/him ... to me , I love getting pieces of advice and I do understand well what you mean but in here , we must ask ourselves why we are being advised ??? Is it for sympathy ? love or caring ???
Thanks God the lady has found her voice :) .

Thanks a million for the wonderful story .
Nassiba
Avis Hafiidhaturrahmah
October 18, 2008 | 1:11 AM
great
I love this....THxxxx^_^
abbyorisha Abigail Ngulube
October 18, 2008 | 3:54 AM
Thanx
Thanx for all your comments, I really appreciate a lot.

I can define love as a warm, kind feeling that one has for the other person. it is tender devotion; a feeling that the person one that feeling for is perfect. But love is reciprocal i.e. one should return love to the other.

If love is not returned, it is called unrequited or rejected love. Those rejected fell dejected, and can sometimes suffer from distress unknowingly.

Love involves PASSION, INTIMACY and COMMITMENT.

There are 7 types of LOVE:

1. Liking----------------------(Wit only Intimacy)
2. Infatuation----------------(Wit only Passion)
3.Empty love----------------(Involves only Commitment)
4. Romantic love------------(Passion and Intimacy are involved in)
5. Companionate love------(Intimacy and Commitment only)
6. Fatuous love-------------(Only Intimacy is non-available)
7. Consummate love-------(Ideal love wit everything involved in)

Lots and lots of people around the world are going thruogh these types of love.

If I may ask, which one of these types of love were these two people in the above story involved in?

Thanx.
abbyorisha Abigail Ngulube
October 18, 2008 | 4:02 AM
LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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